Allyssa Gordan

alwaysabeautifullife:

If I could be honest for one second—no one tells you that miscarriages are traumatic. No one tells you because most of the women that have them keep it to themselves, like some sort of secret. Which is fine if it wasn’t expected. So you don’t realize actually how painful it is, you assume like some sort of complete idiot that it’s something you can get over easily? Because that’s what’s been presented to you. And then you realize it’s a traumatic event that literally changes your entire perception on anything, and seeing pregnant women or children or talking about pregnancy reminds you and it just becomes hard to breathe?

Everyone also assumes it’s something you should just “get over”. It’s “what happens”, you can’t mourn because it’s “weird”. I remember questioning “should I feel this way? Am I allowed to be sad?” Because I didn’t carry my baby full term and then loose it. I remember that and just…no one tells you.

Anyway I’ll never be over it and it’s traumatic and I want everyone to know.

bnmxfld:

“I can be someone’s and still be my own.”

— Shel Silverstein

sunsetquotes:

“Do you think the universe fights for souls to be together? Some things are too strange and strong to be coincidences.”

— Emery Allen

true-love-is-everything:

Be with someone whose eyes can show you how much they love you, without a single spoken word.

whendidmythoughtsgocrazy:

“Don’t wait for someone who’s not even sure what they want out of your relationship. Look for someone who finds something new every other day to love about you, even the little annoying things.”

k.b. // you deserve better 

persephones-fruit:

“A ghost can be a lot of things. A memory, a daydream, a secret. Grief, anger, guilt. But, in my experience, they’re just what we want to see.”

— Steven Crain, The Haunting of Hill House

xoblxrryfxce:

“Where do you go when your house isn’t home?”